Are you searching for the best teen life coach in San Jose, CA? You’re in the right place, and I’m glad you’re here.
Hi, I’m Andrew Petrillo. I’m a certified teen life coach specializing in helping young people navigate life’s biggest challenges. I know firsthand what it’s like to feel overwhelmed as a teenager.
I faced academic stress, ADHD, and the pressure to fit in. Life coaching helped me overcome those obstacles and changed my life’s course. Now, I’m here to do the same for others.
With over 8 years of experience, I’ve coached teens nationwide, including here in San Jose, to feel more confident, focused, and ready for their future. My sessions are personalized, virtual, and built to fit the busy lives of modern teens and their families.
Why Choose a Teen Life Coach?
Let’s be honest, teen life is no walk in the park. Between school, family, friendships, social media, and planning for the future, it’s easy for teens to feel stressed or lost.
According to the American Psychological Association, over 70% of teens feel overwhelmed by school alone.
That’s why life coaching matters. Unlike therapy, which often focuses on healing from the past, life coaching is about building the present and shaping the future. It’s a proactive, practical approach that gives teens the tools to thrive.
As a teen life coach, I don’t give lectures. I listen. I understand. And I help teens develop real-life strategies for things like:
- Boosting self-confidence
- Managing stress and anxiety
- Improving communication and relationships
- Creating goals and staying motivated
- Navigating academic pressure and decision-making
Coaching isn’t about fixing teens but empowering them to be their best selves.
What I Offer – Real Coaching That Helps
My coaching isn’t just about talking. It’s about taking action. We’ll work side by side to build simple, real-life skills that improve life – now and later.
Every session is personalised. No one-size-fits-all. I meet each teen exactly where they are, with full attention, honesty, and care.
Here’s how I help:
1. Real Confidence
Many teens struggle to see their own strengths. I help them find and build on what makes them unique. Whether speaking up in class, trying out for a team, or believing in themselves, confidence is the foundation for everything else.
2. Clear Goals and Direction
So many teens feel stuck or unsure about what’s next. We take vague ideas like “I want to do better in school” or “I don’t know what I want to be”and turn them into specific, step-by-step goals. Then, we build a path to reach them.
3. Better Focus and Motivation
Social media, stress, and constant distractions can make it hard to stay on track. I teach tools like time-blocking, prioritization, and focus hacks that actually work. Teens often say they feel more organized and motivated within weeks.
4. Stronger Relationships
Friendships, family, dating there’s a lot. I help teens improve communication, set healthy boundaries, and navigate social dynamics with more confidence and less drama.
5. Coping Tools for Stress and Emotions
From school stress to emotional ups and downs, I guide teens through practical strategies they can use anytime. Whether it’s breathing exercises, thought reframing, or mindfulness practices, they’ll feel more in control of their emotions.
6. Smarter Decisions
I coach teens on how to make thoughtful, value-aligned choices. Whether it’s choosing classes, dealing with peer pressure, or thinking about the future, they learn how to make decisions they can feel good about.
Who Can Benefit? Common Challenges Teens Face
My coaching is a great fit for teens who are:
- Struggling with low self-esteem or negative self-talk
- Feeling overwhelmed by school, social media, or family pressure
- Having trouble focusing or managing time
- Feeling isolated, anxious, or stuck in comparison traps
- Unsure about their next steps after high school
- Dealing with relationship challenges or peer conflicts
- Looking for someone who “gets it” and won’t judge them
If you’re a parent reading this and see your teen in any of these descriptions, you’re not alone, your teen doesn’t have to be either.
How Coaching Works
My coaching process is straightforward and effective. Here’s what to expect:
- Initial Consultation: We start with a free 20-minute call. This helps us understand each other and set goals.
- Personalized Sessions: Each session is tailored to the teen’s needs. We focus on their specific challenges and goals.
- Ongoing Support: I provide continuous support and accountability. We celebrate successes and adjust goals as needed.
- Tools and Resources: I share practical tools and resources to help teens succeed outside our sessions.
Why Choose Me as Your Teen’s Life Coach—Even From Portland to San José
Choosing the right life coach for your teen is a big deal. You want someone who truly understands, supports, and delivers real results. Here’s why I’m a strong choice, even though I’m based in Portland, OR. I’ve successfully helped many teens in San José, CA, through online coaching.
1. Proven Results With Teens in San José
I’ve guided hundreds of teens in San José to overcome tough challenges, whether stress, self-doubt, or school pressure. My clients have seen real changes: more confidence, better grades, and healthier relationships. Parents tell me how their kids come home happier and more focused.
2. A Practical, Problem-Solving Mindset
I hold an engineering degree, which taught me how to break problems down and find clear solutions. I bring that same mindset to coaching. We tackle challenges step by step, with simple, effective strategies that fit each teen’s life.
3. Certified and Committed
I’m proud to hold the ACC credential from the International Coaching Federation (ICF). This means I follow top ethical and professional standards worldwide. But coaching is more than credentials it’s about genuine care and trust, which I build every session.
4. Personalised Coaching That Fits
No two teens are the same. I design coaching that fits your teen’s unique needs, goals, and personality. Together, we create a plan that feels doable and meaningful.
5. Evidence-Based, Practical Tools
I use coaching techniques backed by research. These methods focus on building resilience, self-awareness, and real-life skills. My goal is to help teens grow in ways they notice and value.
6. Deep Local Insight
Though I’m based in Portland, I understand San José’s culture and the pressures teens face there. That connection means I offer guidance that resonates with local families and teens.
7. Strong Community Links
I’ve built connections and resources in San José to fully support my clients. I can guide families to additional services when needed, ensuring no teen feels alone.
8. Ongoing Support That Matters
My work doesn’t stop at the end of a session. I provide regular check-ins and encouragement to keep teens motivated and on track. I celebrate every win, big or small.
9. Flexible, Comfortable Online Coaching
Online sessions mean teens can connect from home, in a safe, familiar space. This makes it easier for them to open up and stay consistent, fitting coaching smoothly into busy lives.
If you’re ready to help your teen thrive, let’s talk. Call me at +1 (503) 758-6765 to schedule a free discovery call.
San Jose, CA Customer Success Stories
Helping teens thrive in San Jose isn’t just my job, it’s my passion. These stories show the power of support, the impact of the right mindset, and the victories that happen when teens believe in themselves.
Emily, 16 – Willow Glen High School
“Before coaching, I felt lost. I couldn’t focus. I didn’t even want to go to school. But after working with Andrew, I felt heard for the first time. We set small goals. I built routines. I even started journaling. Now? I’ve raised my GPA by a full point, and I sleep better at night.”
Jason, 17 – Lincoln High School
I was faced with video game addiction and poor time management. My parents were worried I’d never get off the couch. I was behind in every class. Andrew helped me set boundaries without feeling punished. He taught me how to take control of my schedule. I’m applying to colleges now and I believe I’ll get in.”
Sophia, 15 – Evergreen Valley High
“I used to compare myself to everyone. I thought I had to be perfect. Coaching helped me break free. Andrew reminded me that failing is okay, it’s how we grow. I joined a drama club. I gave a speech in class. I’ve never felt braver.”
Parents Notice Too
“We saw a huge change in our son’s attitude after just three sessions.”
— Maria, mother of a 16-year-old from San Jose
“It was like watching my daughter come back to life.”
— Carlos, father of a 15-year-old at Silver Creek High
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Is online coaching effective for teens?
Absolutely. Many teens feel more comfortable opening up from home. Online coaching also makes it easier to stay consistent, saves travel time, and fits smoothly into busy schedules.
Do parents get involved in the coaching process?
Yes—while the sessions are confidential to build trust with the teen, I provide regular check-ins with parents to share general progress and insights (with the teen’s permission). My goal is to build a strong team around your child.
Does insurance cover coaching?
Life coaching is not covered by insurance. However, many families find the investment in coaching pays off quickly in terms of reduced stress, better academic performance, and greater confidence.
Can you work with teens who have ADHD or learning differences?
Yes. I specialize in supporting teens with ADHD, and I use structured, personalized strategies to help them build focus, routine, and self-regulation. My own experience with ADHD gives me insight into how to support neurodivergent learners.
Do you offer group coaching or workshops?
I focus on one-on-one coaching to ensure every teen gets personalized support. However, I occasionally run virtual workshops or webinars on teen stress, focus, or motivation. Ask me about upcoming events.
Let’s Build a Brighter Future, Together
Every teen deserves someone in their corner—someone who listens, understands, and believes in their potential even when they can’t see it themselves. That’s what I do.
Whether your teen struggles with focus, stress, confidence, or just needs direction, I’m here to help.
The change starts with one conversation.
Schedule your free 20-minute discovery call today
Call or Text: +1 (503) 758-6765
E-mail: andrewpetrillolifecoaching@gmail.com
You don’t have to do this alone. Let’s help your teen thrive.
